Posts Tagged ‘relationship’

The process of re-building

Written on December 7th, 2010 by sassymomno shouts

Trials are given test somebody’s ability to endure life. A few years back, our family business experienced some setback which led both of us to go back to the corporate world to sustain our everyday expenditure. I thank the Lord for giving us the opportunity to bounce back and the learnings we have learned from this episode in our life, have benefited us in a lot of ways, especially in our marriage.

Through the hardships, we have tested the strength of our relationship and I can proudly say that our marriage have blossomed into a stronger bond this amidst a high percentage of marriage getting broken. I just hope and pray for strength that no matter how hard our trials become, we’ll come out victorious.

Now, we are in the process of rebuilding not only our lives but mostly our family business. One baby step at a time, I know we will be able to do it. The physical office will soon take its shape and I am slowly saving up for the office furniture and equipment. Probably, in no time hubs will be finding himself canvassing for an Industrial pc to service the needs of his clients.

Thank you Lord for this blessing!

Loving my husband’s dependence

Written on September 18th, 2010 by sassymomno shouts

At the Venetian “My husband is so dependent on me,” I have heard this line over and over from my girl friends and that does not exclude me.

It’s funny how most married women complain about this but honestly however irritating this maybe I am loving my husband’s dependence on me. Oh yeah, it gets into my nerves every now and then but that’s the fun part. It’s like adding spice into your relationship.

Over the years, I have come to understand why men needed to do these kinds of things. It’s one way of telling their wife that they are needed. It should be a flattery but of course, with all the hustle bustle of daily lives, these things can really be quite annoying.

Personally, I love it when hubby ask if there is coffee in the morning. It’s one way of saying, “Can you brew me some coffee?” Or when he asks if the tie goes with the shirt he’s wearing, it’s short of asking you, “What do you think I should wear today?”

Most men I know hate shopping and that’s where the dependence starts and I love it! I love having to buy him clothes. Just recently I have managed to influence him to take care of his face by putting on moisturizer and sunblock. Now, he’s asking me what is the best night cream for him and it just made me smile.

Yes, my husband is so dependent on me and I am loving it.